Sunday, December 28, 2008

28th Dec 2008(Experience)

It the recession period.

It is another crisis in life that will soon come to pass like all other thing in life.The unluckily one may get their "recess" but not to be sad as there a saying "resting oneself is to go a longer distance"

All this period in life will let one accumulate wisdom, insight and sometime resentment.All those thing is called experience.

Experience is one thing people can look back and find certain answer to the future problem.It made a person become stronger from his setback and mistake, provided that person is alive to learn it.

Experience can be both painful and sweet.Making it an emotional roller coaster.

Let me share ab it of my experience with certain thing i had try and i had getting better from it.

The first thing i would like to share is my first experience of riding a 150cc motorbike.

When i first got my motorbike from a buyer at the Internet, i was at least more than 40km away from my estate.I got on the bike, start it and i go hit the road with totally no idea how to go back.

I also totally forgotten half of my traffic rules.

changing lane is a big chore, as i turn my head back and forth thrice before making a change.i manage to made it to the expressway and made a big loop around Singapore.Even through i riding at 60km/hr, my heart is racing at top speed of 140bpm.

I had a revelation that God grace is enough to pull me through all my problems as i found out when i got home that my fuel tank is on "reserve" and the battery is already flat.

The second thing I'm going to share is about my experience with love.

To put it simple, love is like having the other person smiling image stuck in your head.Everything about the other person is nice when one is falling in love.Those nice thing include the smile,the eye,saliva,sweat and body odour all is like a gift from heaven.Holding someone you love will takes your breath away.Love will made big chemical reaction of racing heart beat and raging hormones.

Man and woman both wants love and lust.As both are human being.

The big question in all raging hormones single head is how to be love.

I confirm that to be love, one has to follow a basic rule and that is

"Ask and you shall receive, seek and you shall find."

Thursday, December 18, 2008

18th Dec 2008(Good News)

Don't get me wrong, I'm not here to peach some religious message.

I here to write about this topic called "Good news".

As you all know, news got good and bad.Good news uplift the soul and bring smile to face.Bad news brings anxiety, fear and uncertainly.

The most common and interesting news that people like to hear or read is the Bad news.This kind of news can be found in almost every Newspaper.From Gossip in the entertainment world, to unfortunate accident in the real world and weird thing people get themselves into.These bad news capture attention of million reader compare to the good news that Bill Gate is giving billion of dollar to charity.

Even through it is interesting to read, the effect of bringing the fear of uncertainly is there.

I once read a Book written by Mary Carlomagno titled "Give it up!My year of learning to live better with less".The book is about her journey to give up certain habit in life to live better within a year.

In one of the chapter that caught my attention is her attend to give up reading newspaper.

Can you imagine that? Giving up reading newspaper?Is like shutting yourself away from the happening world.People will be laughing at anyone who doesn't know what is going on in this exploding world of information.

She replace her habit of reading newspaper by reading Poems.Positive and uplifting poems was read, first thing in the morning, instead of newspaper.

Not only did she save a huge amount of money from not buying newspaper, she felt really good and motivated first thing in the morning.It really a food for thought.

The cure for "monday blues"? A good book that tell you how wonderful this world is.

Monday, December 8, 2008

9th Dec 2008(Homework)

I have always hated homework in my early day as a kid.I was blessed by my parent with a SEGA video game system for me to play, due to home work, i had less time to play the game.Being very indiscipline as a kid, i always hack care my homework and end up playing the video game for the whole day.

When i was the age of 16, and begun to take lesson in martial art, i began to see the important of homework from this activity that i had taken up.

My senior in martial art always told us that in order to achieve near perfection in the movement, one have to train at home everyday.

When time passes by as i had experience all the sweet and sour in life, i learned that not only did we need to train everyday for the movement, we need to read up material on the subject in order to change on the thing that we need to train everyday.Only this way we can improve in the area of field we are in.

By then, i had a revelation of the Principal of homework.

Homework is a constant work of practice, problem solving,planning,research,testing and insight on whatever field that we are in.The principal that i had realise is so simple and yet time after time i had forgotten to apply, how i wish to tattoo this revelation on my arm.

Monday, December 1, 2008

2nd Dec 2008(Stories)

It was five O'clock in the evening and i had finished all my work. I Still need to wait for another three hour to knock off.I picked up a book that my senior had borrow from the library titled "wisdom for life" and began reading it.
The book is all written in Chinese,it is like a Chinese version of "chicken soup for the soul."
After I've reading the book, i begun telling stories to my two senior of what i had just read.i had manage to capture their attention and they are interested in the stories that i had told them.
I had manage to kill three hour of idle time in my workplace.

Story is a form of communication.A form of idea,view and inspiration.

Most charismatic leader uses story to spread their intended message.

Most great man uses story to inspire people.

Story telling give listener the same "addictive" feeling as listening to gossip of other people,the only different is the positive effect of the message in the story.Gossips, on the other hand had a negativity effect of pulling down other.

Everybody got a story to tell.It depend on how inspiring the story can get that lead people to remember it for a long time.Stories that is sad,negativity,sadist and full of blame only stay in the mind of people for short time.After all, everybody can complain,It is human nature

Stories that is uplifting is of a human spirit.

I used to tell a story of "Rocky Balboa" to a girl who is about to take her A level in a month's time.I told her the author of "rocky balboa"(in very brief summary) is a poor chap who dream big,His dream is to be a actor.He spent all his time trying to be an actor of his own script that he had wrote.When his cash had run out before he found his big chance,he decided to sell his favourite dog to an old man for cash to continue looking for it.(This author had a hard time to become an actor because of his speech and mouth problem)
Finally, he found big chance to act.This author offer the old man, who he sold his dog to,for a chance to play in his movie by giving him a role as a trainer.In return of his dog.

The girl was inspired by the story which I've told her.She worked hard for her A level, after she finished watching "Rocky Balboa" series....