There is a woman. Greatly praise by both catholic and Muslim. The perfect woman of God. Her name is Mary. The mother of Jesus. The holy virgin. She live out the word written by king Solomon of a great godly woman.
After experience all the bad, the good and the weird about woman, i begin to ask myself who is the great example of a woman? As i can find none so far. I can only think of Mary. (Just as woman think of Our lord as the great example of man)
She accept God request to give birth to Christ without hesitation. Remain godly and a virgin all through her life.
In a time where moral and politic crash. People done immorally thing and use excuse to hide it for moral reason which create a complex society. And it made love even more complex.
The holy virgin Mary is humble, Godly, well manner and honest. All other that i saw is just faking it.
Where is the "Mary" in my life? can i find her before my time is over? If i found her, what is next? After all love is not just love.
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
25th march 2009(moral???)
There is a trend in a recent news. That is more and more people are having sex video and picture in Singapore.
From NYP Tammy to the Singapore Edison.
It lead me to think about the comment that my friend once written in her blog which is "Singaporean guys only think about sex"
True to the fact from what i know is guy is more lustful than girls. This is the what i know from the time i was young.
However the question i want to ask is that since the girls are the willing party in the sex video and scandal,are Singapore guy the only one who only think about sex? or are guy suppose to made the first move in term of sexual request that made us the bad guys?"
Does that made the girls and the guys equal in term of their lust toward sex?
If the girls in the Edison sex video saga doesn't have to face a risk of losing their job will they come out and say "sorry"?
For the "Singapore Edison" saga aren't the girls willing also? It made me think that there is no such thing as morally upright, everything is upside down. Whatever things a guy can do, a girl can equally do. How lustful a guy is, a girl can be equally lustful.
whether they are Singaporean Chinese girl or foreign woman, to me they are all just human being, with the same weakness. There is no longer a thing call high class or low class in my heart. it the action and the intention in their heart that matter. whether they got degree or uneducated to me it made no difference.
From NYP Tammy to the Singapore Edison.
It lead me to think about the comment that my friend once written in her blog which is "Singaporean guys only think about sex"
True to the fact from what i know is guy is more lustful than girls. This is the what i know from the time i was young.
However the question i want to ask is that since the girls are the willing party in the sex video and scandal,are Singapore guy the only one who only think about sex? or are guy suppose to made the first move in term of sexual request that made us the bad guys?"
Does that made the girls and the guys equal in term of their lust toward sex?
If the girls in the Edison sex video saga doesn't have to face a risk of losing their job will they come out and say "sorry"?
For the "Singapore Edison" saga aren't the girls willing also? It made me think that there is no such thing as morally upright, everything is upside down. Whatever things a guy can do, a girl can equally do. How lustful a guy is, a girl can be equally lustful.
whether they are Singaporean Chinese girl or foreign woman, to me they are all just human being, with the same weakness. There is no longer a thing call high class or low class in my heart. it the action and the intention in their heart that matter. whether they got degree or uneducated to me it made no difference.
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
24th march 2009 (direction)
Once upon time there was a village in a valley.
People life is simple, the village is governed by a village head and the villager live by the resources surrounding it. Such as Live stocks, vegetable farm and a reservoir filled with fresh water.
One day, the village chief announce to the villager that the village's water source will soon come to the end. The village head want to hire people to fetch water from the near by mountain to refill the water source and for each bucket of water fetch back from the mountain will be rewarded with 2 gold pieces.
That time only two guys are available for this job, the name of these two guys are called Dan and Roy.
Roy is well build and strong in physical strength
Dan on the other hand is quite slim in build and also have quite an average in physical strength.
Together they trade in their time to fetch water from the mountain back to the village. As time went pass, both of them are quite well doing. Roy is having a good time with the money he earn.Dan on the other hand save up what had he earned.
One day Dan got injured, he has slow down in term of speed when it come to fetching the water back to village.
Dan got stress about his work and his future, as he might lose he income when his injury get worst. He began to think about a solution to his problem.
One day he come out with an idea of building a pipeline to fetch water effortlessly from the mountain to the village. He told this idea to Roy to help him in constructing the pipeline. However, Roy laughed at him and told him not to dream.
Dan give up fetching water with the bucket and begin to plan and build his pipeline with the amount of saving he has. Time went by, Roy laughed at him as Dan is spending way too much money on thing he can't see. Roy continue to enjoy his money from the job which he is having.
After two years and all the money gone, Dan manage to finish the pipeline and redirect the water to a pond behind his house. he supplied the water by the amount that the village head demands.His source of income increase steady everyday. Dan became rich and use the extra money to hire worker to build pipeline in other village. Now Dan don't have to work, his income comes passively.
Roy heard this news, got angry and spend all his time fetching more and more water, however there is a limit to his strength. He got tired and fall sick, the money he earn goes to the doctor who is giving him the treatment
This is the story of Passive income. the finale of financial freedom.
*Passive income will only come to you through self revelation, do not believe in other when they offer a passive income to you, there is always a catch.
People life is simple, the village is governed by a village head and the villager live by the resources surrounding it. Such as Live stocks, vegetable farm and a reservoir filled with fresh water.
One day, the village chief announce to the villager that the village's water source will soon come to the end. The village head want to hire people to fetch water from the near by mountain to refill the water source and for each bucket of water fetch back from the mountain will be rewarded with 2 gold pieces.
That time only two guys are available for this job, the name of these two guys are called Dan and Roy.
Roy is well build and strong in physical strength
Dan on the other hand is quite slim in build and also have quite an average in physical strength.
Together they trade in their time to fetch water from the mountain back to the village. As time went pass, both of them are quite well doing. Roy is having a good time with the money he earn.Dan on the other hand save up what had he earned.
One day Dan got injured, he has slow down in term of speed when it come to fetching the water back to village.
Dan got stress about his work and his future, as he might lose he income when his injury get worst. He began to think about a solution to his problem.
One day he come out with an idea of building a pipeline to fetch water effortlessly from the mountain to the village. He told this idea to Roy to help him in constructing the pipeline. However, Roy laughed at him and told him not to dream.
Dan give up fetching water with the bucket and begin to plan and build his pipeline with the amount of saving he has. Time went by, Roy laughed at him as Dan is spending way too much money on thing he can't see. Roy continue to enjoy his money from the job which he is having.
After two years and all the money gone, Dan manage to finish the pipeline and redirect the water to a pond behind his house. he supplied the water by the amount that the village head demands.His source of income increase steady everyday. Dan became rich and use the extra money to hire worker to build pipeline in other village. Now Dan don't have to work, his income comes passively.
Roy heard this news, got angry and spend all his time fetching more and more water, however there is a limit to his strength. He got tired and fall sick, the money he earn goes to the doctor who is giving him the treatment
This is the story of Passive income. the finale of financial freedom.
*Passive income will only come to you through self revelation, do not believe in other when they offer a passive income to you, there is always a catch.
Saturday, March 14, 2009
14th march 2009 ( )
On a daily basis, if you ask me what i worry about, i will tell you i will be worry about Money,Job, reputation, studies, relationship and Health.
If you suddenly ask me what i think about death, all the sudden my worries seems to be unrealistic. I will say that relationship and being alive are the main thing in life, and i will tell even if you have one friend with you and he or she is willing to spend his or her time to laugh and enjoy with you, that is the greatest blessing. And money seems to be unimportant.
If we are can live forever, time will be meaningless. That is also the main reason why the bible said that God is patience in forgiving.He live forever, time is nothing to him.
We rush to complete things. We rush to live life to the fullest. We are constantly busy because we want to forget the fact that we can anytime leave this world.
"People worship God because they scare of death."
That is not true, People are not scare of death. People are scare to die before knowing their purpose of living. In religion, people found wisdom in understand their purpose of living.
Purpose is the main reason for living.
Do the things you enjoy, because life is too short to do the thing you dislike.
I found out that making full use of time we have in volunteering to do thing make life more interesting. (The Yes man)
I once attended a wake of my ex church member's grandmother about two years ago. Before she passed away, i went to visit her and spoken to her when she is lying on her hospital bed. she was alive and and moving. At the wake, i saw the same lady lying in the coffin. No matter how hard i stare at her, she didn't move at all. There is no life in the body.
Those who went with me to the wake just pay their respect and left, some stay and chat.
While the i was feeling uneasy as the word keep repeat itself in my mind "She is not moving, there is no life.There used to be, i talked to her before."
The definition of life i have from there on, is something i cannot use word to describe. It has add more value to my life.
If you suddenly ask me what i think about death, all the sudden my worries seems to be unrealistic. I will say that relationship and being alive are the main thing in life, and i will tell even if you have one friend with you and he or she is willing to spend his or her time to laugh and enjoy with you, that is the greatest blessing. And money seems to be unimportant.
If we are can live forever, time will be meaningless. That is also the main reason why the bible said that God is patience in forgiving.He live forever, time is nothing to him.
We rush to complete things. We rush to live life to the fullest. We are constantly busy because we want to forget the fact that we can anytime leave this world.
"People worship God because they scare of death."
That is not true, People are not scare of death. People are scare to die before knowing their purpose of living. In religion, people found wisdom in understand their purpose of living.
Purpose is the main reason for living.
Do the things you enjoy, because life is too short to do the thing you dislike.
I found out that making full use of time we have in volunteering to do thing make life more interesting. (The Yes man)
I once attended a wake of my ex church member's grandmother about two years ago. Before she passed away, i went to visit her and spoken to her when she is lying on her hospital bed. she was alive and and moving. At the wake, i saw the same lady lying in the coffin. No matter how hard i stare at her, she didn't move at all. There is no life in the body.
Those who went with me to the wake just pay their respect and left, some stay and chat.
While the i was feeling uneasy as the word keep repeat itself in my mind "She is not moving, there is no life.There used to be, i talked to her before."
The definition of life i have from there on, is something i cannot use word to describe. It has add more value to my life.
Thursday, March 12, 2009
13th march 2009 ( "Normals" )
There is a common trait in people you found at Schools,workplace, national service and shopping malls.
It is the "walls" that you need to break in order for them to be your friend. The word for this is call "ice-breaking". People all have their own level of privacy.
For a person to be your friend, the first 90 second of impression is the last impression any person is going to leave.
Second barrier we need to break is the bio-status of the person.It is still at a very formal stage, where exchange of simple information like age, working status, relationship status, family sibling and hobbies take places.
The third stages, is at a more closer stage where people share their emotion and problem with each other. Normally when both friend are of opposite gender reach this stage they might become attracted.This is also the "honeymoon period' for couple.
The fourth stage, is the last stage.Where all the flaw and hurt are being endure by each other.normally, when friends reaches this state they are either separated or stay as good friends. A great deal of understanding is needed at this stage.
This is normal.
However, let think out of the box for a moment. Let's say i know that it is hard to form a friendship in the real world. i create a world where breaking-ice is simple. Because once i win a trust from a friend, it is easy to request things from them.As well as using our friendship as a bait to get what i want.
i create a world where people are all supportive, friendly and willing listens. Ice-breaking is very simple.Or should i say these people will help you break the ice. They are beautiful people which break the ice for you.
I will tell this group of people the reason to be nice is a strength and teaches them that once a person grab hold of another person heart, Guilt and hurtful words will be a weapon. The best part is that no evidence will be found.That person will be train to throw away his or her logic skill when listening to a nice and gentle speaker because he or she don't want to be outcast.
They will reason thing base on the logic that i want them to reason in.Because in my world, people don't have to face the hardship of making friends or even feeling rejected. In this world that i created, everybody is friend and family.And i want them to teaches this logic to the friend around them. Those who refuse to listen are advice to break off their friendship with them.
Imagination time is over, now back to the topic.
Sound scary? sound like some cult? What evil or sick mind was i thinking? Or is it what i wrote was actually happening in the real world?
Before my blog get flame by supporter of any organisation, i not going to say any names.
However, this is a guideline. Nothing in this world is easy. Even making friends.
If a place is full of friendly people that tell you to relax, my advice is do not throw away common sense or logic.
I not saying about religious group as from my experience, making friend still take the "normal road" in religious group which made them normal and safe.
Common sense is not so common. If it common, i won't be writing my experience......
It is the "walls" that you need to break in order for them to be your friend. The word for this is call "ice-breaking". People all have their own level of privacy.
For a person to be your friend, the first 90 second of impression is the last impression any person is going to leave.
Second barrier we need to break is the bio-status of the person.It is still at a very formal stage, where exchange of simple information like age, working status, relationship status, family sibling and hobbies take places.
The third stages, is at a more closer stage where people share their emotion and problem with each other. Normally when both friend are of opposite gender reach this stage they might become attracted.This is also the "honeymoon period' for couple.
The fourth stage, is the last stage.Where all the flaw and hurt are being endure by each other.normally, when friends reaches this state they are either separated or stay as good friends. A great deal of understanding is needed at this stage.
This is normal.
However, let think out of the box for a moment. Let's say i know that it is hard to form a friendship in the real world. i create a world where breaking-ice is simple. Because once i win a trust from a friend, it is easy to request things from them.As well as using our friendship as a bait to get what i want.
i create a world where people are all supportive, friendly and willing listens. Ice-breaking is very simple.Or should i say these people will help you break the ice. They are beautiful people which break the ice for you.
I will tell this group of people the reason to be nice is a strength and teaches them that once a person grab hold of another person heart, Guilt and hurtful words will be a weapon. The best part is that no evidence will be found.That person will be train to throw away his or her logic skill when listening to a nice and gentle speaker because he or she don't want to be outcast.
They will reason thing base on the logic that i want them to reason in.Because in my world, people don't have to face the hardship of making friends or even feeling rejected. In this world that i created, everybody is friend and family.And i want them to teaches this logic to the friend around them. Those who refuse to listen are advice to break off their friendship with them.
Imagination time is over, now back to the topic.
Sound scary? sound like some cult? What evil or sick mind was i thinking? Or is it what i wrote was actually happening in the real world?
Before my blog get flame by supporter of any organisation, i not going to say any names.
However, this is a guideline. Nothing in this world is easy. Even making friends.
If a place is full of friendly people that tell you to relax, my advice is do not throw away common sense or logic.
I not saying about religious group as from my experience, making friend still take the "normal road" in religious group which made them normal and safe.
Common sense is not so common. If it common, i won't be writing my experience......
13th march 2009 ( choices)
During the previous year, i had been fickle minded about my goal and my focus. Because of this trait which lead me to achieving nothing. Even with careful planning, a fickle mind will not lead me to any destination.
I decided to put my effort on patience, focus and planning. It turn out pretty well.
However, even that is the case, i am still human. My flaw begin to mirror to myself as time passes. I beginning to become impatience. In my heart, i wanted to achieve thing in a faster and greater pace by taking on more thing that i can handle. I was tempted by the words such as "shorter time", "excuses" and "faster way".
My experience with these three word has not been a good one. In my logical mind i knew one principal which never fade in me. There is no shortcut, and there is no such thing as a faster way. Just as the bible wrote; "the pathway to hell is a high way, while the path to heaven is a narrow gate only few will find it"
Yes, in work there is always way to find shortcut. It takes hard work and experience for those people working longer before me to provide that shortcut to finish that task.In the end, there is no shortcut.
Only the devil will offer shortcut, and so far i had experience nothing but lies and emptiness in those so call short cut method. And yes, the devil is call "the father of all lies"
Only God offer a longer and painful path which lead to life.(i will not discuss about it here)
What does the above topic that i wrote link about topic regarding choices? Don't get me wrong, i haven't wrote out of the content yet. i still within it.
"There will be a time, when one must make a choice"
Let me repeat my principal which i had learned to reach a goal, it is patience, focus and planning.
However, if one is standing in the cross junction of choices where he need to give up certain thing in order to prioritize his goal. Questions such as these will appear in that person mind;
"which one must i give up?"
"i can't take on all this goal i wanted to achieve, as time, focus, attention and money are needed"
"if i take on all the goal that i wanted to achieve, possibility is the skill level of individual field is not enough for me to reach the next level as time is needed in term of trait and error."
"If i focus all my attention on achieving so less, what if i die tomorrow?"
Every stool need three poles to stand if two are remove, the stool cannot stand. If the question and the temptation to achieve more in less time will take away patience and focus, leaving only planning.
Remember where we are now, is the result of the choices we made in the past. Those thing in front of our eye is either an opportunity or a trap.
Both are learning experiences.(salesman love this sentence, if it from their mouth i take it as crap)
i made two choice for myself to chose
1. chose to achieve all the choices, but i need to only focus and complete one first before moving on to the next.
2.Give up certain thing to totally focus on one goal that is top priority.
I decided to put my effort on patience, focus and planning. It turn out pretty well.
However, even that is the case, i am still human. My flaw begin to mirror to myself as time passes. I beginning to become impatience. In my heart, i wanted to achieve thing in a faster and greater pace by taking on more thing that i can handle. I was tempted by the words such as "shorter time", "excuses" and "faster way".
My experience with these three word has not been a good one. In my logical mind i knew one principal which never fade in me. There is no shortcut, and there is no such thing as a faster way. Just as the bible wrote; "the pathway to hell is a high way, while the path to heaven is a narrow gate only few will find it"
Yes, in work there is always way to find shortcut. It takes hard work and experience for those people working longer before me to provide that shortcut to finish that task.In the end, there is no shortcut.
Only the devil will offer shortcut, and so far i had experience nothing but lies and emptiness in those so call short cut method. And yes, the devil is call "the father of all lies"
Only God offer a longer and painful path which lead to life.(i will not discuss about it here)
What does the above topic that i wrote link about topic regarding choices? Don't get me wrong, i haven't wrote out of the content yet. i still within it.
"There will be a time, when one must make a choice"
Let me repeat my principal which i had learned to reach a goal, it is patience, focus and planning.
However, if one is standing in the cross junction of choices where he need to give up certain thing in order to prioritize his goal. Questions such as these will appear in that person mind;
"which one must i give up?"
"i can't take on all this goal i wanted to achieve, as time, focus, attention and money are needed"
"if i take on all the goal that i wanted to achieve, possibility is the skill level of individual field is not enough for me to reach the next level as time is needed in term of trait and error."
"If i focus all my attention on achieving so less, what if i die tomorrow?"
Every stool need three poles to stand if two are remove, the stool cannot stand. If the question and the temptation to achieve more in less time will take away patience and focus, leaving only planning.
Remember where we are now, is the result of the choices we made in the past. Those thing in front of our eye is either an opportunity or a trap.
Both are learning experiences.(salesman love this sentence, if it from their mouth i take it as crap)
i made two choice for myself to chose
1. chose to achieve all the choices, but i need to only focus and complete one first before moving on to the next.
2.Give up certain thing to totally focus on one goal that is top priority.
Saturday, March 7, 2009
8th march 2009(Lust vs love)
I once read a comment on a forum which wrote " Nowadays youngster are confuse between love and lust"
I begin to question myself whether i part of it?
To begin with, if i would to fall in love with a woman what will i look out for?
1.Looks. She need to be pretty or cute either one will do.
2.A good personality, one that can share my problem with and also one that i can click with.
3. An average figure.
The answer that i have for myself is that i pretty much close to that "confuse" group.
What is love?
To be love is:
1) when i made a terrible mistake and my dad says "all human mad es mistakes you are only human don't think too much about it"
2)When i made a confession to my mum and she said "it okie , don't do it again"
3)when my prayer is answer.
4)when friends don't demand much from each other and just enjoy each other company.
5)when i tell myself "it okie, everything is to be fine"
What is lust?
it is a craving of the body. Body that is an eye candy.
I once asked a friend about how she chose her potential boyfriend. She told me that her potential boyfriend need to be caring, loving, gentle. without good look is fine, as long as he is average looking.
Then when i asked her again about why she didn't chose xxx who declare his love to her, she just said " oh my god, he is just an average Joe which don't even have money, my taste goes for handsome hunk"
To be with someone that is good looking is hard
To be with someone who willing to give that genuine love is not only difficult but it require us to take a look in our own heart.
I begin to question myself whether i part of it?
To begin with, if i would to fall in love with a woman what will i look out for?
1.Looks. She need to be pretty or cute either one will do.
2.A good personality, one that can share my problem with and also one that i can click with.
3. An average figure.
The answer that i have for myself is that i pretty much close to that "confuse" group.
What is love?
To be love is:
1) when i made a terrible mistake and my dad says "all human mad es mistakes you are only human don't think too much about it"
2)When i made a confession to my mum and she said "it okie , don't do it again"
3)when my prayer is answer.
4)when friends don't demand much from each other and just enjoy each other company.
5)when i tell myself "it okie, everything is to be fine"
What is lust?
it is a craving of the body. Body that is an eye candy.
I once asked a friend about how she chose her potential boyfriend. She told me that her potential boyfriend need to be caring, loving, gentle. without good look is fine, as long as he is average looking.
Then when i asked her again about why she didn't chose xxx who declare his love to her, she just said " oh my god, he is just an average Joe which don't even have money, my taste goes for handsome hunk"
To be with someone that is good looking is hard
To be with someone who willing to give that genuine love is not only difficult but it require us to take a look in our own heart.
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