13th march 2009 ( "Normals" )

There is a common trait in people you found at Schools,workplace, national service and shopping malls.

It is the "walls" that you need to break in order for them to be your friend. The word for this is call "ice-breaking". People all have their own level of privacy.

For a person to be your friend, the first 90 second of impression is the last impression any person is going to leave.

Second barrier we need to break is the bio-status of the person.It is still at a very formal stage, where exchange of simple information like age, working status, relationship status, family sibling and hobbies take places.

The third stages, is at a more closer stage where people share their emotion and problem with each other. Normally when both friend are of opposite gender reach this stage they might become attracted.This is also the "honeymoon period' for couple.

The fourth stage, is the last stage.Where all the flaw and hurt are being endure by each other.normally, when friends reaches this state they are either separated or stay as good friends. A great deal of understanding is needed at this stage.


This is normal.


However, let think out of the box for a moment. Let's say i know that it is hard to form a friendship in the real world. i create a world where breaking-ice is simple. Because once i win a trust from a friend, it is easy to request things from them.As well as using our friendship as a bait to get what i want.

i create a world where people are all supportive, friendly and willing listens. Ice-breaking is very simple.Or should i say these people will help you break the ice. They are beautiful people which break the ice for you.

I will tell this group of people the reason to be nice is a strength and teaches them that once a person grab hold of another person heart, Guilt and hurtful words will be a weapon. The best part is that no evidence will be found.That person will be train to throw away his or her logic skill when listening to a nice and gentle speaker because he or she don't want to be outcast.

They will reason thing base on the logic that i want them to reason in.Because in my world, people don't have to face the hardship of making friends or even feeling rejected. In this world that i created, everybody is friend and family.And i want them to teaches this logic to the friend around them. Those who refuse to listen are advice to break off their friendship with them.


Imagination time is over, now back to the topic.

Sound scary? sound like some cult? What evil or sick mind was i thinking? Or is it what i wrote was actually happening in the real world?

Before my blog get flame by supporter of any organisation, i not going to say any names.

However, this is a guideline. Nothing in this world is easy. Even making friends.

If a place is full of friendly people that tell you to relax, my advice is do not throw away common sense or logic.

I not saying about religious group as from my experience, making friend still take the "normal road" in religious group which made them normal and safe.

Common sense is not so common. If it common, i won't be writing my experience......