Expectation is hoping for the best thing that can possible happen.
I once had a great expectation of getting this girl, to be my girlfriend,who i like when i was training in martial art in my secondary school time.After a giving in hard effort of trying and years of waiting, she suddenly told me that she went to America to study for five years.And she didn't even say anything about "waiting for her".
Of course that incident is only a little part of my life.
There is a lot of things beside the incident that I've mention which i have given great expectation or what people call it "hopeful thinking".
However, the higher the expectation.The greater the shock when things didn't turn out as i expected it to be.
I began to lower my expectation of things as i begin to set high goal with very detail planning and "baby step" to start my first step on everything.
Most of the time, i didn't even expect anything good out of anything and i learn to be happy on the small and simple thing in life, such as eating and breathing.
So far the things that had happen this year to me has been way above my expectation.
My level of expectation didn't raises as things goes my way, as the fear build up as i had been repeatedly hitted by the "shock" over the years..
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